Aug 21, 2008

Hear what Oprah Winfrey had to say about men

If a man wants you
nothing can keep him away
If he doesn't want you
nothing can make him stay
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be
Slower is better
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends"
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend
Don't settle
If you feel like he is stringing you along
then he probably is
Don't stay because you think "it will get better"
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better
The only person you can control in a relationship is you
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you
If something bothers you, speak up
Never let a man know everything
He will use it against you later
You cannot change a man's behaviour
Change comes from within
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
even if he has more education or in a better job
Do not make him into a quasi-god
He is a man, nothing more nothing less..
Never let a man define who you are
Never borrow someone else's man
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you
All men are NOT dogs
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
compromise is two way street
You need time to heal between relationships...
there is nothing cute about baggage...
deal with your issues before pursuing a newrelationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
look for someone complimentary...not supplementary
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right
Make him miss you sometimes...
when a man always know where you are
and you're always readily available to him
- he takes it for granted
Never move into his mother's house
Never co-sign for a man
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile
another rethink her choices
and another woman prepared
They say it takes a minute to find a special person
an hour to appreciate them
a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful : Dr Phill
You should know that you're the best thing
that could ever happen to anyone
and if a man mistreats you he'll miss out on a good thing
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place
just know that he's not the only one
They're all watching you
so you have a lot of choices
Make the right one
Ladies take care of your own hearts....

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