Sep 22, 2012

Your iPersonic Type: The Sensitive Doer

Okay... out of stressed, for fun I take 5 minutes to do this personality test. Don't have time to read thoroughly or maybe later.

Sensitive Doers like you are gentle, modest and reserved persons. You cope well with everyday life and you like your privacy. With your quiet, optimistic nature, you are also a good, sought-after listener and other people feel well in your company. All in all, your type is the most likeable and friendliest of all personality types. Tolerance and your regard for others distinguish your personality. You are very caring, generous and always willing to help. You are open to and interested in everything that is new or unknown to you. However, if your inner value system or your sense of justice is hurt, you can suddenly and surprisingly become forceful and assertive.

Sensitive Doers enjoy the comforts life offers to the full. You are very happy in everyday life. Sensitive Doers like you are often gifted artists or very good craftsmen. Creativity, imagination and an especially keen perception are just a few of your strong points. You are very presence-oriented; long-term planning and preparations do not appeal to you. You take life as it comes and react flexibly to daily demands. You do not like too much routine and predictability. Your talents come more to the fore when work processes are variable and there are not so many rules. You like to work alone; if you are part of a team, you do not get involved in competitive or power games and you prefer living and working together harmoniously and openly.

Your type, although belonging to the introverted Doers, is also the most amiable and friendly in his dealings with others of all types. This special combination is the reason for your great flexibility. It enables you to work excellently and contently on your own to suit any situation, but also achieve extraordinary popularity and professional satisfaction as a member of a team. Here the precondition is a friendly, collegiate environment characterized by harmony and mutual respect.

You need a working environment without intrigue or political manipulation, and with the least possible deployment of elbows. Cooperation rather than confrontation, should be the order of the day. Colleagues as well as superiors equally appreciate your unassuming, congenial nature and your unbelievable sensitivity plus your attentive and generous ways toward others. In your presence, people simply have to be comfortable; you are not competition oriented, whatsoever. You are almost limitlessly tolerant and always prepared to accept others as they are. As a consequence, you very rarely have problems getting along with different people. The only exception: when your private value system is hurt or you notice injustice somewhere. In that case, you can react quite forcefully but even in the most heated dispute you always try to argue respectfully and fairly.

Therefore it is very important that your work is compatible with your (high) values and ideals. In the long term, it is not satisfactory to just do any job with the sole objective of finding money in your account at the end of the month. You need the feeling of being able to totally identify yourself with your job, and to fully support whatever it is that you do every day. Ideally, your usually more practically- than theoretically-oriented activity provides you with tangible results. Then you can walk home at night feeling that you made the world just a little bit better than it had been in the morning - preferably for another human being.


Apr 11, 2012


So yeah, I hate April mostly, cause when the budget of the new financial year comes in; begins another routine dreadful worksssss which make a huge affect after a leisure half of March. This year it seems worse cause I'm acting for a colleague who's on leave, preparing a presentation for the 16th and then I'm preparing for the logistics for another trade fair in June. I don't know which to do and finish first. I don't like multi tasking. I rather finished one job first and then start another. But now, I have to deal with whatever seems urgent at the moment :(

Then there is the fact that I seems like a 'therapist', everyone keeps pouring out their heart and woes to me. Today, of all to layan my bestfriend from high school, who says she's getting old and the pool of good husband material are decreasing. It does not help also that she keeps falling for the wrong person, which mostly consist of men who wants to fools around, wanting only the relationship of FWB (Friends with Benefit). I told her to ditch her latest fall, though so far he seems the cutest (of all her conquest), he's not gonna change his mind after reaping 'all' the benefits from her, to wants to commit. She said she can't, she melts everytime he speaks or smiles at her. Urghhh! I told her to fall for her bestfriend instead that I keep seeing she or him upload pictures of them together in FB, and she laughed bittterly, he's gay. Well, I'm out of advice then. She asked me to find her a boyfriend ^.^ sure thing I said, but it will be 'leftovers' for I will only pass her the guy that did not pass my 'checklist' if there were many.

Then, there is this colleague who is several years younger than me and forever and always keep on searching for her Mr. Bujang but keeps going back to her Mr.Already Married and Have a Family. The relationship finally ends (I hope so!) when he was posted in outstation and she was giving him a surprised visit when he was admitted at the hospital there. What a shock it was, while she was attending him with love and care in the ward, later comes a local lady who asked who she was. The guy, told her - just a colleague from back home. He's having an affair there also! My colleague held her smile and tears until she was out of the hospital. So yeah, my other colleague tries to set her up with other men but she does not seems interested... and today, she sheds tears again as someone told her about the incident where some person who is related to the guy bad-mouthed her when it was all in the past and she never bad-mouthed that person or being mean to that person. I told her the best revenge is be happy. And don't let her happiness depend on another person. Be happy whether she meet or not her soulmate. But she said, she must get married to gain happiness or else she'll be forever thinking of what she don't have. Hmmm... does that mean to take whatever comes your way, even if does not fulfill all your requirement (I'm not talking about perfectness, but heart), won't that bring dissatisfaction and worse misery later on?

After the talks, got back to my work with minor gossip interruptions, but later this night it got me thinking, why am I not like them? worried about old age and my singledom? Should I be worried? But then, I'm not ready to commit to all those responsibilities that comes with commitment. Haha... at the moment I just want to show off someone with me when the occasions calls for it, if not he's not to bother me. If only, there's a lot of actor for hire around here...